For 25 cents, you can buy a Hershey Kiss valentine for anybody at school and then on Valentine's Day, they get delivered to the various classrooms. It's a fundraiser, but it's also a fun way to send a little "kiss" to a friend or a teacher.
Jacob wrote out his list of valentines way ahead of time: who he was going to send one to and what he was going to write on each one.
He got his money ready. He had his list ready.
Valentine's Day comes and goes. Jacob gets off the bus after school and tells me he didn't receive one valentine from anybody. He sent out about ten.
It wouldn't be so heartbreaking for me if he hadn't taken so much time and made such an effort to make sure he didn't leave any of his "friends" out. Oh, my heart aches.
I'm glad I decided to go to the school one morning and purchase three Kiss Valentine's for each of my boys: One from me, one from Jason, and one from Christiana. So Jacob did receive those three.
Jacob even sent a valentine to Jimmy. But Jimmy didn't return the favor with his money. I think that was unintentional because Jimmy did say today that he did send one, but the lady writing down the names misheard him and wrote a different boy's name down instead.
Whatever. I cried inside. Big tears inside. Aching chest.
Jacob did receive lots of "regular" valentines from his classmates during their party but he was feeling pretty badly about not receiving any Kiss Valentine's.
Can we just ignore this holiday? It just makes a kid and a mom feel lousy.